Homework for parents: Choosing the Right School

As your child turns four and is ready for school, you are faced with a multitude of options and the significant challenge of choosing the perfect one. This decision is paramount, as a school is as important as family in being the first institution to play a vital role in your child's socialisation. You will surely leave no stone unturned in this search. While you can talk with other parents and read through school brochures, sometimes that isn't enough to find the most appropriate fit. There are several key features you need to look into before making a final choice. Selecting the right school is one of the most significant decisions you will make as a parent, as it lays the foundation for your child's future academic and personal success. With so many options available, the process can feel overwhelming, but focusing on the distinct features of each school can help guide your decision.

Understand your child

Before looking into school brochures and websites, begin with understanding your child. Notice his individual learning style, strengths, and areas for improvement. Consider whether your child thrives in a structured environment or a more flexible one. This can greatly influence with how your child enjoys learning. Reflect on their personality: are they independent learners or do they benefit from more collaborative work? Identifying your child's specific needs, interests, and talents will serve as your primary clue throughout the selection process. Hamidur Rahman, who is looking for schools to turn his child into also emphasises the importance of learning more about the child. He says, "Before parents did not focus much about what their children is like. It's no longer about finding a school and hoping my child fits in. but I look for strengths and areas for growth. I am looking for a school that are accommodating to these aspects of learning." Hamidur's approach highlights a timely and necessary shift in how parents select schools for their children.

This "hidden curriculum" can significantly influence your child's development. When evaluating the school's environment, look for a nurturing and inclusive environment where your child will feel safe, supported, and a sense of belonging.

Consider the curriculum

While a school's curriculum is a critical component to evaluate. It's important to look beyond mere academic subjects and consider the school's educational philosophy. Does the school emphasise rote learning, or does it foster critical thinking, problem-solving, and creativity? Look for a curriculum that is well-rounded and focuses on the holistic development of the child, encompassing not just academics but also essential life skills.

Research board of education: Research the different boards available, such as Cambridge, Edexcel or IB, and determine which aligns best with your child's future academic goals.

Inquire about teaching methodologies: Inquire about the instructional methods used by teachers. Are they engaging and innovative? Do they cater to different learning styles?

Look into academic support: For children with special learning needs, it's crucial to ensure the school provides adequate support services, such as counselling and tutoring.

Look into culture and values

A school's culture and values play a pivotal role in shaping a child's character. It's essential to choose a school whose ethos aligns with your family's values. This "hidden curriculum" can significantly influence your child's development.

When evaluating the school's environment, look for a nurturing and inclusive environment where your child will feel safe, supported, and a sense of belonging. Teacher-Student Ratio is another key factor to look for.  A lower ratio often translates to more individualised attention for your child. A strong partnership between parents and the school is vital for a child's success. Inquire about the school's approach to parent-teacher communication and opportunities for parental involvement.

Consider practical aspects 

For some parents, this decision goes beyond simple convenience. As Ehsanur Raza Ronny, a parent explains, "The main reason I chose this school for my child is that I wanted to put them in a school that has a good mix of kids that truly prepares them for the world they will actually live in." This perspective can lead a parent to intentionally choose a school in a more central location that draws from various neighbourhoods, even if it means a slightly longer commute, in order to achieve that desired social mix.

Similarly, when considering the budget and fees, it's crucial to be realistic, not just tuition but also additional costs like uniforms, transportation, and extracurricular activities. And finally, a parent's primary concern is their child's safety. It is important that children feel emotionally safe and secure in school where they spend most of their time of the day. So, investigate the school's safety measures, including their emergency procedures and policies for visitor access.

Extracurricular Opportunities

A well-rounded education extends beyond the traditional classroom setting. Extracurricular activities are crucial for a child's social and emotional development and can enhance their self-esteem and academic performance. Look into the variety of activities offered, such as sports, arts, and clubs, to ensure there are opportunities that align with your child's interests.

Research, Visit, and Observe

Once you have a clearer idea of what you're looking for, it's time to gather information. While school websites and brochures are a good starting point, nothing beats a personal visit.

Begin with a School Visit. Observe the classrooms, students, interact with faculty, and get a feel for the overall atmosphere. Try to visit during regular school hours to see the school in action.

If possible speak with the principal, teachers, and other parents to gain valuable insights into the school community. Ultimately, you are the expert on your child. Pay attention to your intuition and choose the environment where you believe your child will not only learn but also thrive.