A guide to giving good gifts

As satisfying as it is to get a good gift, it can be just as satisfying to give a great one. For many, gifting is a love language. It is a way to show affection, celebrate moments, and express our love beyond words.

That being said, deciding what to gift someone can feel challenging at times. However, if you remember a few things, the whole process becomes a lot easier.

Personalise the gift

There are many ways to make a gift feel personal. For instance, instead of a typical keychain, try a resin one made with their favourite flowers shaped into their initials. Or, if you're getting them something like a plushie, tuck in a letter to explain why you picked it. You could even give the plushie a name and a backstory. Another personalisation option is engraving something, like a wallet or necklace, with the recipient's initials or a meaningful word.

Personal touches work well when you want to impress someone you don't know very well, or someone who already owns a lot of things.

Pay attention to what they like

It's tempting to go with the first idea that crosses your mind, like a jersey for a football fan. But thoughtful gifting is about the person, not just the category.

If someone's always outdoors, maybe they'd like a water bottle that keeps drinks cold or a cool smartwatch. If they wear bold colours, get something equally vibrant and fun.

One of the best gifts I received was a curl cream set, because a friend noticed my hair was naturally curly, even though I never mentioned it. That observation meant a lot, so paying attention is key here.

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Give something they wouldn't buy for themselves

Great gifts are often small luxuries people don't afford themselves, like a good scented candle, sleep mask, or spa voucher. It doesn't need to be pricey; just something that feels like a treat. This makes the gift memorable as everyone likes a little treat.

You can also go for functionality, like a gift set with shower products and a bathrobe, or a snack box themed around a favourite colour or type of food.

Unwrapping is part of the gift

Presentation adds a lot to a gift. You don't need expert wrapping skills, but showing care with nice wrapping paper, a ribbon, or a box makes the moment feel special.

A well-wrapped gift builds curiosity. I also try to include a detailed letter inside explaining my reason for the gift and why I got it for them. Gift bags are also a great option if you're like me and don't know how to wrap properly.

Don't overthink the price

Good gifts don't have to be expensive. As corny as it sounds, it really is the thought that matters. A handmade bracelet, a book they would enjoy, or a card in their favourite colour can all be meaningful. You could make jewellery using resin or polymer clay from stationery stores to make a cute decor for their space. A handmade friendship bead bracelet never gets old.

Tinath Zaeba is an optimistic daydreamer and a cat mom of 5. Get in touch via [email protected].